Game is Too Much Like Real Life

1. I have no idea where I stand with the prospective love interest.
2. It's taking forever to get to know a love interest well enough to see their boobs, let alone encounter a lewd scene.
3. I'm always afraid I'm missing out - If I pick "Go See Raiko" am I missing a huge opportunity to pursue Avis? If I pursue Serena, will that end my friendship and possible path to Avis? Do I experience the stress of lying, and continuing to lie my friends to protect Koko's Secret?  (Even though it's part of the game, I have RL stress over this decision!)
5. I've got serious FOMO, so rather than progressing with anyone, I'm too busy exploring the different paths to get very far with anyone. 

Props to KatanaVN for coming up with storylines that (too closely) mirror real life.  The different storylines are interesting. At the same time I've been playing the VN for 6 months now and haven't found a pathway to anyone's heart - let alone their boobs or other body parts.