I take a look at comments to see if someone has already asked what I would like to, and I find a warzone. I am so sorry you have to deal with this in a fetish community.
Any way, is the dialogue tied to how we make our characters by any chance? I admittedly was not fond of the stuck-up character I was playing as (nor of her "feminism" comment - personally not a thing I think of as a woman, especially not about other women - you do you, boo). If it's not possible nor planned, I won't push the issue - it was just something that bothered me and was wondering if that could be changed in the character building phase somehow.