Well the impression I've been getting is the complete opposite, that everyone seems to hate the new controls. It's not something you can gauge accurately without a poll (And hopefully not one restricted to just people that are willing to give away their personal phone numbers and other private data to Discord Inc. just to join the server).
But onto the controls themselves:
It is not about "getting used to them"; I already have and can operate well enough with them, and yet I still think they suck.
Tap/Hold does nothing but unnecessarily introduce delay *and* room for error. Time management in VotV is crucial, specially early game, so adding any delay to day-to-day actions a bad idea. If you want to mitigate that by reducing how long you need to hold E, you're turning the controls into a matter of skill and learning your timings. And making controls skill-based is something that runs completely opposite to v0.9's purported mission to simplify the controls.
Being able to switch E's tap and hold would accomplish nothing. If you've been playing at all you should have soon realized different contexts call for toggling R's swap one way or the other: You're doing life to life activities, you're often going to want R-tap to be hold. You're collecting trash, you're going to want R-tap to be collect. So if you were looking to be efficient with your time so you can fulfill your 5 signal quota and still have time to clean by doing that, you're dooming yourself to switching back and forth, never able to cement your muscle memory.
And picture this: the drone's here, so you go Hold the drive box, Grab the tape box, and Collect the zip disk. And then you're hit with a "not enough" space on that last step. Why? Because you're Holding a drive box, and under the new control scheme, with no interaction menus you no longer have any way to tell the game you want to Collect the zip disk specifically, and are left at the mercy of the game's arbitrary criteria that "Collect" must always collect held items first. Not only is this feature loss, you have to juggle items more as a result: again, completely counter to this idea that the new controls are simpler and more intuitive.
No matter how you slice it, the new controls are a downgrade.