every time you take control away from the player, you're telling the player you don't respect them.
Nakey Jakey has some helpful things to say from the consumer's perspective
letting go of perfection and sharing your creations with people rather than letting them play your games is a lot more respectful.yes, you're a fantastic artist.
yes, your artistic vision will be brutalized, but you will make far more happiness in the world each time you upload something that lets people decide on their own what they enjoy.