Hey, thank you for the appreciation :) Re: your question: at the moment not possible, and I'm afraid it's not a priority so far.
In the next update though there will be profiles to assign to characters, that prioritize to various extent one or two of three general action types (arousal, domination and humiliation), as well as fighting styles (for lack of a better name), that control the weight distribution of what the AI considers to be move type priorities.
To provide an example: let's say your character is low on sexual endurance. The other will prioritize arousal moves (subject to the above, but also with a certain degree of randomness). If your character's willpower is low, they might prioritize domination and humiliation moves (that reduce willpower). All this is happening in different combination, due to various factor.
What I'm talking about isn't yet released though. Will probably do it very soon though.
EDIT: Yeah, so I released it, v0.2.1. Because it was pretty much ready :)