I don't know what the rules are or what else you can do, but the next time you open a ticket and it's not answered, you can post the ID here and I'll let our admins know.

What should I do if my game is never verified? I actively update it every month, with every major updat

You act like your game will only ever have an audience if it gets bumped on the recent sorting. If that is the case, then bumping it there will not help.

And why does everybody talk about major updates "every month". In my vocabulary, if you do a regular monthly update, that's a regular monthly update, not a major update. Itch approves far too many of those in my opinion. And linking the bump to a devlog punishes the devs that update without a devlog.

You need to do actual promoting. Not hoping for passive circumstantial advertisement. People looking for the nieche you offer will find the game regardless of any recentness. It's currently literally only 100 games if you select the adult tag and the three letter tag you used. 30 if you add the AI tag.

Anyway, my theory is, that having a popular game and many followers improves the odds of an approved major update devlog a lot. Think 5000 followers, not 200. 200 is nothing to sneer at, but more popular adult nieches gather thousands of followers in a few months. This might be an Itch thing, since your Patreon has over 1000 followers. AI is not popular here. And I dislike the layout of some Patreon pages, your's included. Where is the about page, where a developer would list social links? There could be a link to Itch, directing some of the thousands of Patreon visitors to Itch once in a while, boosting popularity.