The office gives money of course, every week she pays you as long as you fill the work quota. As for the chair I believe you can access most content as long as you are wearing any diaper.
As for the skirt XD Good catch, just a bit of immersion mismatch. Skirt was kind of a surprise addition, and exceptions will need to be added to some scenes clearly.
For the F4 vs Old republic question, that one I respect greatly. And I don't have a good answer. I can't program every emotional reaction. So the embarrassment, humiliation, and reluctance are key themes I am going for. They player may start to embrace the abdl aspects and the game tries to accommodate that in a few events. I often refer to this game in tags as "simulation" rather than RPG. It sort of fits both. (possibly using simulation in the wrong sense of the intended meaning)
As for clothing, that is picked at the mirror and chosen the night before. But getting an option to pick which clothes you put on in the morning is a really good one. I am rather certain I will look into implementing that one for the next update.
The home error means something big broke. And that is hotfix territory. Expect me to look into that one immediately.