Even if you buy women's work clothes ahead of time, you can't wear them to work the next day; as "put on clothes and head out" does not give the option to choose which clothes.
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Is the player character supposed to be the player, or are they a given character?
The difference is Knights of the Old Republic* versus Fallout 4.
If the character is supposed to be the player, then telling the boss I wanted to be female wouldn't be a lie.
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Is it possible to earn money without working at the daiper store? As much fun as the daiper suits are… It gets incredibly dull when it's mandatory to get any kind of progress…
Want a crib? perma daipersuit… Want baby chair? perma daipersuit… Want food? perma daipersuit…