I can totally understand your change of mindset in regards to adult content, especially due to the recent payment processor nonsense.
Just sharing my personal experience in playing both Strive Conquest and Strive for Power, I've always valued the romance interactions more than the sex aspects of the game. The latter feels more like an added bonus to me personally, and the overall world setting makes the romance all the more interesting.
This makes me curious, though: have you ever thought of making a romance-focused RPG game similar to Strive? The emphasis would be moved from the adult content to romance, of course.