Or even better, a way to set the rate manually for each country?

I have deregered from VAT MOSS, since from Jan 1 2019, EU VAT can be accounted for as domestic sales (including digital goods), providing not more than €10,000 in sales are made.

To support start-ups and micro-businesses, the introduction of a yearly VAT threshold of €10,000 under which cross-border sales to other countries within the EU are treated as domestic sales for online companies, with VAT paid to their own tax administration. This goes hand in hand with other initiatives such as single invoicing rules. Our aim is to make trading in the single market as similar as possible to trading at home for these companies. On top of this, companies selling cross-border with less than €100,000 cross-border sales will benefit from simplified rules;

Of course, i could switch off "add VAT" but VAT is actually being charged, and a VAT  a customer VAT receipt might be required.

any help. thanks.