I have beeen playing the game for a while and I find it kind of annoying and time consuming to gain sex points for every slave individually since my main goal throughout the game is to have a mansion with the most slaves as possible.  Will you ever consider making it possible to disable this so you only have to gain enough sex points once. (This would definitely not affect their emotions for the main character since having to build up a relationship makes sense.)

The old sex system is being removed and replaced with interaction menu in next version.

Awesome

If they are not even appearing after you have selected both a giver and taker, I'd say that's a bug. Sometimes options will appear, but be greyed out due to low obedience. But this doesn't sound like that.

If you are not already updated to most recent version, do so. Or try reinstalling. Beyond that i'm not sure what to suggest!

Yeah I got the most recent version, just that the older version was hindering the newer update cause they show up now lol.

Had to completely get rid of the whole folder and unzip it the game into the same but empty folder.

Glad it's working :)