Relatable. Thanks for posting this! Also, damn, the effing menace of cis "~womb health~ specialists" not knowing the very basic facts about what sex hormone exposure does or does not do to their specialty organ. It's so inexcusable that they think hystos are mandatory.
Humorous(ish) story related to that for ya; one of the very first people I ever came out to was a GYN who'd just done an exam on me. She proceeded to explain to me that I was definitely not a trans woman before I could butt in to introduce her to the concept that that definitely wasn't what I'd meant.
Question - in Wrong Hole, you begin by mentioning something about "Drugs for menopause and erectile dysfunction [...] instead of androgens" and I'm not sure what you're referring to, unless that's a reference to being misdiagnosed as having sexual dysfunction that isn't a trans thing? If you didn't already know - sometimes, compounds are just compounds; while a particular T variant may be billed as "for" menopause or ED treatment, it works for that in the first place because it is performing the biological function of T.