Why on earth would I want to punch around when people like you are busy punching down
AdmiralCrispy
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This isn't even your community, but yet you're like trying to start some kinda civil war over unimportant nothings, probably to serve some personal agenda, what are you, the CIA in foreign nations on behalf of produce companies?
Seriously what is your obsession?
Just because someone is trans and into misgendering kink or forced detrans kinks doesn't make them cis, the clue is the prefix 'trans' there, and yes it is very much people like yourself who do exactly what you're doing right now
The kink doesn't perpetuate stereotypes about trans men. And detransitioning is a separate thing, and not unique to trans men, and also doesn't perpetuate stereotypes. The only thing that perpetuates stereotypes about trans men is when transphobes or people whop specifically don't like trans men go out of there way to do so.
As far as cis women supposedly larping as trans guys, I guess if I'd ever come across that, I don't know that I would care at all honestly, that's just another way to play with gender and what people do on their private time is their business, who am I to talk?
However I haven't actually seen any cis women in those circles. Maybe just different circles.
I am tired of transphobia but the idea is not, "we need to be the bestest, most cis trans men ever so the cis people accept us!" it's that certain people will go out of their way to harm small communities or use them no matter what, so it's best to just live and surround yourself with people with love and support and acceptance in their hearts instead of trying to conform to a culture that would have you abandon your identity in the name of some ideal of 'perfection'.
Trying to scapegoat a kink and conflate it with trans men existing is... rough. There are SO many kinks in general, and your opinion about any/all of them could be that there are better ways to cope, but you know, that's personal to you, and has no weight on how other people live, and ethically shouldn't. It's simply not your decision whether something as subjective as a kink is healthy for someone else. People have to work that out themselves. They've got agency.
I don't treat my community as a monolith and I don't get to decide who "we" are all associated with in the minds of random people who conflate kink with gender and detransitioners with cis women.
Oh I meant why would it be relevant to us getting physical or other representation in a game, I'm aware of the kink existing.
Because, not all trans guys have that kink, I'm sure most don't actually. And you know, as a trans guy, it's not just something we all talk about or something.
Just because someone doesn't understand why it exists doesn't mean trans men in general- or those who have the kink- aren't trans. And just because a trans guy might have the kink doesn't make it the only aspect of their s*xuality, or personality, or whatever.
A lot of kinks are based around trauma. A lot of kinks are about taking what's hurt you and running the same scenario but in a place/way where it can't really hurt you the same/as much.
Personally, I just want general MLM stuff that includes people with my physiology. MLM with T4T or trans and cis guys is all I'm looking for. Not a rabbit hole, just a slight change from typical NSFW content. has nothing to do with misgendering kink.
I really just want to be affirmed in my gender, and not misgendered, in NSFW content.
Look, cards down, I'm a lonely 25 year old loser. I look at other guys who have their lives together relationship-wise and sex-life-wise and I want that. But it's hard, even if I was cis it'd be hard. And like most other people in a similar situation, NSFW content actually kinda matters to me.
As a gay trans guy who's pre-surgery, I feel like this twisted some jagged piece of metal in my gut, but like in a good way- it forced me to come toe-to-toe with some emotions that I've been ignoring for a while. I'll go back to doing that soon, but for a little while at least I have to wrestle with them, and that's good. I wonder what this is like for gay cis men to play.
Very good work