I understand your frustration, but I think you need to be a bit more realistic with your expectations. This is an incredibly small game jam, not Ludum Dare. Also, since the main focus is fetish content, the majority of participants are going to be very concerned with maintaining their privacy, and therefore hesitant to team up with any strangers. I'm sorry you've been having a rough time trying to assemble a team, but that's just the way it is sometimes.
That said, after looking through your posts, it appears you already have a composer and an artist/programmer on board. That seems like more than enough for a game jam, so I don't think you should give up just yet. Either way, I wish you the best of luck.