You may change your mind after a few episodes of Black Butler.
Not recommend it so much as letting you know where you can watch seasons 2 and 3 of AoT. And even if you don't want to read the AoT manga, you can read other manga on mangago if you like. They have an entire Bara section.
Evangelion is NOT a kids anime by any means, but it's too political and boring. There's only one episode I like because it borders on homo. Kaworu tells Shinji he loves him.
Gundam Wing is good, in my opinion, but that could be nostalgia talking. There's other Gundam series' that are apparently better but I've never watched them.
I've talked to lots of furries online and made friends with them, but they're no more open minded than the LGBT community from what I've seen. Maybe more accepting of fetishes, though.
Games that were made into anime.
Like with everything, the source material is better.
Give Sissel's route a try. The ending of it would give you an idea if it's too much or not. It's less stressful than Blackgate or Echo to me, though.
Pretty sure I basically skipped the latest Adastra build. Still don't like it as much as Echo.