Freakouts happen if you are left alone with him and you two have grown close enough by that time.
If you're not getting a freakout, then you haven't been spending enough time with him.
(Note that, to date him, you only need to hit one of the four)
Thanks for your reply.
It's just that in your previous hints it was stated that there is a freakout on September 24th but on that date I don't have a chooce of what to do I always have to go to Q&A to talk with james.
As for time spend together, if I can choose I take the options either with only Carlos or with both Carlos and Adam.
If you're trying to get Adam, you *don't* want Carlos to freak out.
If you haven't talked to James prior to that point, you're forced to go visit him. So if you want to spend time with Carlos, make sure you visit Q&A and then talk to James before that.