Yeah, I was not trying to disagree with you on that line or anything. This was simply my observation based on my experience with bara art works, be it VNs, manga, or doujinshi.
ExAc is great, especially with the implementation of Richard and Dwayne's routes now. Their big guys, like Dozer and Chester, also have bottom scenes. So I really appreciate Dyne's effort to balance things out. The other two games I have mentioned, LD and RM, do fell quite a bit into this "big guy ~= dom top" category though. LD features more player bottom scenes in general, meanwhile some of these bottom scenes do not have an equivalent top scene. Same thing for RM, way more player bottom / submissive scenes. Astaroth's full route is dedicated to sub players meanwhile there is no such equivalent for top players.
That being said, these are still amazing games. I support these projects not only for the smut but also for their art, their writing, and many other things they have to offer. But you know, when you pay the same price as other subscribers but get perhaps 2/3 or even only half of the joy, it's not exactly a good feeling. So guess I was indeed a bit frustrated with it.
I'll look out for the projects you mentioned. Thx for suggesting them.