Glad to hear you're enjoying the game! As for the elf, she starts to warm up to the player. When her story is continued in the future, she'll definitely mellow out a bit more.
She's starting to mellow now, and I'm liking the "do I admit to liking him?" attitude she seems to have. I've found that mostly just being a nice guy has the best effects with all the gals!
Given how much I'm enjoying this, I'm sure I will enjoy the upcoming patch!