So taking our conversation to heart, i went back to try to come up with a better description on how Society will work. Does this make it clearer? I removed the Paternal and Maternal and replaced with something much more neutral
"The first scale is the Society scale, and runs from 1-100. The higher the number is, the more of a leader you are. The lower it is, the more of a follower. This setting partly has to do with whether you tend to be dominate or submissive in dating scenarios if you are trying to maximize your chance of success."
"However, during relationship scenes you can choose your preferred approach! NPCs have their own preference though, and whether you tend to lead or follow may influence the chance of success."
"What this scale does is help to make relationships and interactions feel more realistic. During a relationship check, both parties will perform a society check for that situation."
"As long as one party rolls Leader, and the other Follower, then it may be a successful encounter! Your skills may also have a possibility of influencing this result, possibly turning a failure into success."
"A success may not happen on the first attempt either, so keep trying! There is some randomness involved!"
"To a lesser extent, this will also determine Dominate and Submissive positions. But this roll also deals with a lot more than just what happens in the bedroom. Again, as a player, you can choose at any encounter to "fudge" your society roll by choosing to take a specific approach if you want, though chance of success tends to be higher if you are flexible, just like real life."
"The story can change and impact what NPCS's preferences and reactions are, so don't get too upset if they don't want to talk if they having a bad day!"