Sorry for the late reply, but it's just a trick with shuffling and order- the first "sigh" I put in a shuffle list with a blank as an option, then it goes onto a regular cycle list, and after that another shuffle list with "sigh" as an option and a blank option as well!
Ah! Sorry for not being able to read right, I'm fairly certain with just the shoulders being up it was three frames, and one frame for the blinking, then I think about how many you said (but maybe a tad less) so it wouldn't just be the sighing person blinking rapidly
