On the contrary, I think the grayed out option is immersive in the fact that any person would understand that asking again would be fruitless without some form of trust or understanding. To continuously loop over the question makes less sense to me. I think it's a perfect addition, as are the rest of this update bravo.
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I'm glad you think so! It's a new concept for me which I've been thinking about for a couple of months now - that, sometimes, being more transparent when it comes to explaining the rules (systems) may actually build the mood better than keeping these rules hidden for the sake of what I perceive as immersion-through-illusion.