Why you might like femdom... I have an answer, but it's a highlight from past indulgences that I would even have this answer. Men who like femdom, are seeking the escape of responsibility, of being in control, of being in power. It is about being helpless and at "her" mercy. Being used by her, even being abused by her (within limitations). It all comes down to a shift in power.
Dominant women are sexy, smart, exciting, action takers. Being around femdoms can be intoxicating. You’re always left wanting more.
It’s hard to be a man in this world. You’re always expected to be so strong and aggressive and responsible. Sometimes it’s nice to let all that go for awhile (or a lifetime).
That’s why more and more men are entering into female-led relationships. It’s a refuge from the cut-throat competition in the working world where they can surrender to a person they trust.
I suppose that's all speculation on my part, as I haven't spoken to my Dom in about two years. He would have been better able to supply me with an answer, as he was the one who introduced me to that society. I will say this, the trust in those relationships is PHENOMENAL!
You nailed it. The guys in BL and YAOI are pretty/cute/handsome and I LOVE IT! I get googly eyes and everything~