the reason why you and probably many other girls like fujoshi could be because it focuses on making the male characters beautiful or attractive while giving them depth and character , giving you something to want and lust after or care about, where as the male/female stories or art focuses on the females beauty and reduces the males role to nothing more than a penis, or more anoyingly makes the girl the victim and the male the attacker who defiles her or brings her down in someway, as opposed to seeing a male and female just exploring each other naturally, im guessing in fujoshi you get to see a devolpment of the male character instead of dumb orc rapes big breasted bimbo into submission i get sooooooooooooo tired of that. and thank you for replying i really love getting a females perspective on this stuff and like you i have no idea why i like NTR or femdom stuff, maybe you could off insight into, and i love this discussion with no judgements :)
Why you might like femdom... I have an answer, but it's a highlight from past indulgences that I would even have this answer. Men who like femdom, are seeking the escape of responsibility, of being in control, of being in power. It is about being helpless and at "her" mercy. Being used by her, even being abused by her (within limitations). It all comes down to a shift in power.
Dominant women are sexy, smart, exciting, action takers. Being around femdoms can be intoxicating. You’re always left wanting more.
It’s hard to be a man in this world. You’re always expected to be so strong and aggressive and responsible. Sometimes it’s nice to let all that go for awhile (or a lifetime).
That’s why more and more men are entering into female-led relationships. It’s a refuge from the cut-throat competition in the working world where they can surrender to a person they trust.
I suppose that's all speculation on my part, as I haven't spoken to my Dom in about two years. He would have been better able to supply me with an answer, as he was the one who introduced me to that society. I will say this, the trust in those relationships is PHENOMENAL!
You nailed it. The guys in BL and YAOI are pretty/cute/handsome and I LOVE IT! I get googly eyes and everything~