I have to say the one thing thats I finds sad is once you become the girl friend to any of the ladys, you lose the flavor text from doing non food related activities. Like you go to see a movie but it skips to end of the date.
I think even when you hit the check point of being together, you shouldn't lose the able to just hangout & chill. Maybe make one of those toggles to keep having conversation & flavor text for the funzies.