💯fair, at the end of the day it is your money and your choice. If you are unhappy with the games direction that is when you vote with your wallet as you say.
Though first and foremost I do hope Kal is making games for himself. A sign of a good game or any content is when it is made with love and passion, from their own drive and creativity. Yes, fellowship and monetisation is required to establish a good product. Though all the best indie projects are made from a single vision e.g. Fez, Braid, Super Meat Boy, Summertime Saga... These games find their following and they are locked in for the journey.
Feedback is slowly improving, mainly thanks to Dr.Muramasa. Though I will admit communication is still a massive weakness and as a Patreon I would expect monthly updates, deep dives, overviews, demos and just general nerd out sessions on cool technologies they have been working with. I do not buy the whole Kal saying "NSFW games have a hard time" the porn industry is what elevates the internet and social media is a bottomless pit of new opportunities. I am hoping their next project is lead with a winning mentality.