Very much looking forward to this! Thank you for your hard work. I've been a fan since Kelabra, so pre-ordered yesterday. Please take your time and release the version of the game that you are happy with. This is worth the wait!
As others have nicely expressed, don't let the haters get you down. Incidents like the one you experienced are 100% about the other person dealing with their own issues, not a true reaction to who you are or how amazing you looked. :)
And although it may not seem like it at times, sensitivity is a great strength (in both daily life and game development). Hope you will continue to embrace all of who you are and keep spreading love and queer joy.