to be fair, this issues can also coem from cis guys being disrespectful to MTF folks too. at the end of the day, we transfolk just want to be respected, not misgendered, and seen for the men and masculine folk we are.
Agreed, at the end of the day as long as we exclude those harmful and messed-up kinks and interests, more than fine by me. Oh and thought you forgot about me: hope you had a good Thanksgiving!