Thanks for the question!
In short: no.
You must both 1) place a room, and 2) place a monster/loot. If you roll the dice then cannot do either of these steps (or you choose not to), then that's the end of the game.
Hope this helps. :)
Thank you for setting a big family disagreement! :)
Great! Glad to resolve a heated debate.
Clarification. On weapons with an attack pattern, you are only attacking one monster that is in the pattern. Correct?
Actually, no: all monsters in the spaces marked X get attacked. :)