Pardon, "not my community?" And no, unlike you perhaps I'm not a doormat for cis/transphobes to walk all over. Point is I still firmly believe we should be cautious of the pipeline, not saying it shouldn't be added but also gauge of the vast majority of the audience, mtf trans/nonbinary identifying people, aren't perplexed by the decision. You can't just interject what YOU want into a community without also asking thier opinions on it and not expect some pushback. And no, we SHOULD question if being into misgendering or detrans is just a fetish or if they're actually trans or cis, I don't want cis people to fetishize our experience. And honestly, if you're trans and are into detrans or misgendering, I think they're disgusting, immoral, and should express those feelings in a more healthy, non-problematic way. I mean if you're into that than kudos, but I'm 100% thinking less of you for it and it's brought upon yourself. Literally ask most trans people, they'd agree with me that your tastes are a good bit fucked up. Not to mention the whole thing of handing over your GOOD RIGHT to be upset over misgendering if you're turned on by it in general. That's common sense.
And no, this is merely a difference of opinion: thanks to your rapidness, the moderators have unlisted this entire post and now people can't come in and "agree" with you like you seem to think they will, hence hurting your viewpoint.