Ah - so you know full well why we can't get what we want in these silly games - it's HARD WORK. And, when you say you have some basic animation understanding but computer languages make your brain hurt, then you understand why some AVNs do one thing well and other things poorly. Because we're all built this way: good at certain things and not-so-good to gawdawful at others. Most AVNs are made by one person. Therefore...😉
It's why video games are best made by TEAMS!
Thus I marvel at some AVN creators who can get multiple things right. Classy Lemon, creator of Projekt Passion, can write humor like a mainstream comedy writer, create the most outrageous sex scenes that are both arousing yet make fun of the human sex drive, and create stories that can make you weep. Plus he does things with Ren"Py that no one else can do. Not saying everyone else sucks. Not by any means. It's just almost weird that just one guy can do so many things so well. It's not normal 😆
And not everyone even likes his games. Most folks go for those horribly vanilla gals in bikinis who all somehow look the same (to me) and are barely legal. Too young to be interesting (to me). And rely on the magic, stallion-sized penis because they can't write seduction dialog. Just about everything a male MC in almost every goddamn AVN says is, thus, moronic. But when the gals see the magic cock....oy vey!
In short, AVNs or games with lots of sex sit off in the far corner of the culture and the market. Whereas violence, even extreme violence, complete with dismemberment and blood vapor particle effects...that's just fine 🫣