For your first note, that is just skill issue, move right as shes about to grab you, and if he does grab you just spam z or enter.
"Move right as she's about to grab you"
Gee, thanks. Why didn't I think of that the last twenty times I tried to get through it?
Even if it is a so-called "skill issue" the timing still feels a bit too tight and, for me at least, kinda takes away from the fun of the rest of the game.
Even so, if you spam through her dialogue fast the penalty for getting caught is really minimal