cool I was just wondering :) I thought having the option of talking to the desires instead of being forced into it with random events would be better, because the random events get tedious when you're trying to do stuff like increase your pets happiness and have to run back and forth to the bedroom to sleep haha! I definitely think there are some events that definitely work as random events though, and having a mix would be really cool!
Yeah, I really understand that it can get annoying. So far, the only way to stop that is the command I've put in the cheats menu that prevents these events from happening, but this isn't the best solution yet. Maybe I'll be putting the personal events into the characters' romancing route, I think that would make the most sense.