Wait, how'd you get the one where you date a party member
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you need to defeat the dude at the wizard tower, then go to smallpaw and do some exploring, and during that time, you will find dungeon, and in the dungeon you find the cultists. Defeat the cultists and you get a flower. Give the flower to the companion of your desire, talk to them, and flirt. Hope this helps.