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f95zone is a big community almost exclusively catering to NSFW games. Fare warning, it is a bit of a piracy site for paid NSFW games but supporting the devs is encouraged. plenty of devs upload and communicate with the community of their own will. I suggest Devs upload their games there while having a support line.

It's not the "site", its the payment processors (VISA, Mastercard, PayPal, etc) that are the real reason. Any site that is "friendly" will eventually be hit if they allow you to use Credit/Debit cards as a form of payment.