You got the perfect attitude to grow as a dev - not taking things too to heart and using feedback to improve your game. Again, sorry if the first video caused any grief (if you saw it), it wasn't intended to come off quite so harshly. Roguish is generally a positive descriptor nowdays, but minxy hasn't really changed much and it's strongest synonyms are... well...
Not great. Roguish is gender-neutral, though, so you could just use that instead. Glad you're still intending to work on the game, though, and hope it all goes well for you!