I know what the Wiki says, I'm curious if there is a more efficient way. Not trying to be rude, I thank you for trying to assist. The specific situation is that Mai Lynn's pacifist trait lowers her happiness every time she's in battle, and after she get's 20, if I keep grinding battles, she could utterly hate me by the time I get her to at least 30 respect. That leaves talking which doesn't guarantee a point, meaning I may be save scumbing for a while. I'm trying to be efficient with my resources, and other house members so I was asking if there is anything besides fighting, and talking? Maybe like a date event? I've already beaten the black scorpions and helped her dad.
If you ain't afraid to spend money, if you marry her with an epic wedding it's +5 respect. I'd recommend combat to level 20 so you don't have to spend so much money, then marry her, divorce, power leveling her affection with the affinity spell, and then marry her a second time if you don't want her affected by another having the "first wife" title.