can i make a game where all the women do are try not to talk about men but in the background its extremely evident they really want to.
aka how far can i bend the rules while simultaneously making it amusing.
Technically, you could. But the point of the jam is to make a game where women don't talk about men (since in most games and narratives in media, the women don't have a solid arc of their own). So by bending the rules as far as you can, it's not really fulfilling the purpose of the Jam. Unless you're going for a more satire/parody type thing?