Is patreon a good choice though? I'm not familiar with the details of it, but as far as I know they're ridiculously zealous against hypno/noncon content, even going so far to dock you if you post it outside their platform.
We're going to be considering places like SubscribeStar instead, yeah. This is why we didn't immediately start it, so we could gather some more opinions and information.
Yeah, I don't know substar's policies at all, but I also don't know of any artist friends who got driven off it for inane reasons. Ko-fi seems fine too.