Ok so a possible fix donned on me and it worked. And it was pretty simple overall. I removed the equipment restriction on 2 handers and made them their own weapon type. I'm probably lucky I was able to go this route with the complexity of my game and not mess anything up. I am so happy to have this fixed now the system is just one step away from being perfect.=) I just hope now that the sub class optimizing issue is a simple fix.
A huge, huge thanks from me for all your help with all of this bud, I couldn't have done it without you.