So its a mind control harem vn?
It's somewhat of a fifty fifty. It depends on the situation. But he's not written to be an awful person. Just someone whose tired of being bossed around and wishes to take control of his own life which may or may not lead to good or bad thing's. After all, no one's perfect. So while the mc may do some thing's that aren't morally correct, he isn't trying to be mean or awful. He's just attempting to enjoy his life to the fullest.