I was able to find a doctor who'd give me a "zero-depth vaginoplasty," i.e., just a vulva. It works for me and requires no maintenance besides normal showering.
You do, however, have to make sure that you never mention any desire for one unless it's with a surgeon you know for certain performs them, because there's the "lack of commitment" again. (And, I mean, it means you can't be penetrated, but it's up to each person how much that matters to them.)
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Great point! I wish I had known more about this option because I had the impression that the recovery process would be similar. I don't know if I would have changed my mind but it's just staggering how hard it is to find information about this stuff. Everything I see is just compiled from trans people themselves.