What self-actualization? What gender feels? This is absolutely 100% definitely not a wonderful trans story at all. Why was I so emotionally caught up in the story then? Why did I feel all the feels? What do you mean, I found the protagonist so relatable, from the name stuff and not caring about self stuff at the beginning to the fear and uncertainty of transition at the end? Wait, I'm transgender too, there has to be a connection here. :D