How good of a game is it? like could i pick this up and just play out other animations people have used? could i pick up the VR version and just fiddle around with what i want or would i need to learn some of the animating and how it truly works?

This version of the game, with vamX, makes everything easy.  You don't need to learn how to animate anything.  You can simply choose a pose and sex starts and builds appropriately depending on stimulation.  There are also hundreds of animations so she can walk, lie down, dance many sexy dances, including lap dances, etc., etc., etc.  All of this can be in many different environments, with hundreds of different looks (really infinite looks as you can generate novel looks by pressing a button).  You don't need to learn anything difficult, just open vamX and start the main tutorial to get an idea of how to use the easy buttons, like Pose, Action, Female Look, etc.  A lot is just automatic, for example, she speaks automatically, but then you can go in, and change her voice if you wish, etc.