Now that I've played a bit, I see that the combat system is win=top and lose=bottom (or at least, surrender=bottom; I haven't manually lost yet). If you surrender, the text describes you losing all your clothes and equipment, but... the next scene everything is still there, so you didn't actually lose anything. Considering I'm a bottom, is there a reason not to surrender? It feels like if you're a bottom you just always should.