Sorry for the late reply, but I don't have a problem with sex with balls, I only have a problem with it when a futa has balls, as I said it is an obstruction of the pussy, and if a futa doesn't have a pussy then I can't call them a futa, so I don't have a problem with balls, as on a male the balls don't get in the way of sex, either when they get screwed in the ass or are the one doing the screwing, it just becomes a problem when the ball sack obscures the hole the dick goes into.
Also, when you say;
"And what your telling me here is my balls need to be lopped off and a pussy attached because i don't fit your idea of what you see as a proper futanari or all of my efforts to change what I am should be threw away because unless im willing to mutalate my genitalia I'm not good enough."
I am not saying that at all, as when it comes down to it, I don't like a female to have a dick, and here is the thing I define a female as someone that doesn't have a dick, a male is defined as someone having a dick, but of course, if you don't have a dick nor a pussy then your nonbinary, so with that, I only recognize those three genders (male, female, nonbinary). But I do respect people's pronouns, until it comes down to a male that has become a female, as on the base level, a male produces a decent amount of testosterone, that makes a man more robust than a woman, so when I hear that men that became women are competing in female sports competitions, I can't help but want to kill them, of course, I would never do such a hanis crime as to kill someone, but it shows that I just hate it when a male goes and becomes a female, and note I my self am a natural born male.
Plus I only say that a futa shouldn't have balls from the standpoint of games, art, fictional shit. As in real life, a futa would need a ball sack to produce sperm to impregnate those who have wombs. Also, in real life, I say there is no such thing as a futa in the real world as one of their genitals most likely is fake.
Also, don't try playing off what I said about futas in my other comment, as when I talk about futas I am talking about the world of fiction, most of the time.