Sorry to bother again, but if you could show me how you make your characters/items so perfect in blender I could help you make some of the assets if possible. I could try working on assets and send them to you. All for free!
Truth be told I've never really been keen on people diving headfirst in my projects and got punished for it when I allowed myself to be too open, especially those who want to work for free to get their grounding. I do pay contributors who stay around and help, but I have always been selective with those I stay close with. The problem with this approach is people online who aren't a good fit feel maligned when the conditions just aren't there and tend to ghost and then try to rally a cancel mob on social media a few years later over false pretenses when the timing is convenient.
You should learn a craft if you love doing it and not because you have a short-term interest in a project. Game projects are always a lot of hard work and are often not very rewarding in themselves. Especially niche ones.
If you want to learn blender the way to do it is to complete the donut tutorial seen here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjEaoINr3zgEPv5y--4MKpciLaoQYZB1Z then branch off onto your small projects and only watching videos that are relevant to what you are trying to do. Studying good topology and models you find on SketchHub or in the open3dlab family of sites is a good way to get a footing.
Your idea write-up is good and is quite similar to some of the write-ups on the game docs.
I just wanna be able to help where I can. I also understand a lot of people have bad intentions especially when they don’t get what they want. I just stay away from drama. It makes life easier and a lot more peaceful. I also wouldn’t step on your toes since you by far have the most promising abdl/dl content.
Trust me I look up videos every night to try to get some type of footing on blender creations, animations, and level design on unity. I would spend hours and hours on creating the perfect abdl/dl game if I fully knew how to. Like the creation of your amazing looking characters! Also the amazing items and diapers!
I literally just picked up blender and downloaded unity last week. I was inspired by your work and thought we need more abdl/dl games. I wouldn't create the game with your characters then publish it. I would send you everything I got at that point. I’m very new and basically trying to learn by playing on unity with free assets. I’ll add you.