ok it's a long answer I will take time but first, what you mean kicking you out? The game is crashing? Or you mean something else? What platform you use to play?
Also if you join the discord we can talk about some of this stuff in detail, specially reporting wrong pronouns, etc.
I feel some of these problems are because of the Android build, since the game is optimized for PC or a big screen.
We definitely will rebalance a few things, and fix others that should be working, thanks for the report/feedback! We also working hard and almost done reworking how interactions work so these are less grindy, and will look into increasing the weekly availability of the characters (our original approach was that every day at one time you could go and visit someone else instead of hyper focusing, but maaaaybe we over did it, oops)