I absolutely understand what you mean. A lot of people throw 'this is a faithful fanwork' out the window when it comes to games, mostly because they don't bother to read the game page itself! Also, please, don't worry yourself too much with responding to every comment immediately. If you kept trying to respond to everyone, you would lose time you could have taking care of yourself or working on something awesome!
That's why I decided to put the disclaimer in-game too cos I thought, it only has to show once the very first time you hit play, then it won't bother the player again, but at least they will have seen it if they missed it on the page... but somehow, not everyone is seeing it still, so I guess I can't win, haha.
I sometimes end up leaving comments for a week or so and then replying to everything in one go, but I've saved that for weekends a lot lately. Now my family look at me like I'm extra crazy cos they say, you work all week on your game stuff, and then you're still working on weekends replying to things and you're not getting paid for ANY of it x3 My brother said similarly to you that I shouldn't try to respond to everyone. The problem is, I'll feel awful if I don't >.<
It's always a struggle when it comes to game jams cos I tend to put literally everything but the jam work to one side, so then I have a whole mountain of stuff to catch up on afterwards, haha.
You make a very good point though! I'm kind of terrible at taking care of myself to be honest >.< I've been trying to get better at it, but the problem is, I don't know how to switch off anymore. I did get an oil diffuser lamp for Christmas though, which has helped immensely with getting to sleep at least :3