Hi! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Absolutely, I discovered mine when I was 19, haha, and it gave me the same realisation as Jace: I don't need to force myself to please others because my experience is real and authentic. (Also, you're completely right about asexuality being a spectrum, and I'm part of those who truly encourage the use of the word as an umbrella term, because everyone deserves to put words on their experience).
And thanks for the encouraging words! I just hoped the Aloises I met stopped and realised how bad their actions were, but if not, may justice be served indeed!