Merry belated Christmas and Happy New Year, .michi!
It was a difficult matter to discuss but I'm happy to say that my other relatives are quite understanding about it :'3 I feel very relieved, but yes, I suppose the church can only recognise us as 'separated' because Catholic is very strict and there's no divorce unless one of the partners die or... admit that they're 'gay' (because that means they can't do their husbandly duties), but of course, my ex-husband won't and can't do that x'D (Chinese and their honor + telling lies sounds morally wrong)
Nonetheless, thank you for your concern! Let us hope 2024 brings us many good fortunes & I hope all of us can be happy ^.^)/